The Root of Childhood Wounds Part 2

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Healing the Roots Series — Part #2

Beneath every adult struggle, there often lives a child still waiting to be seen, heard, and loved. Like the roots of a tree, our early experiences reach deep into the soil of who we become. When those roots are nurtured, they create stability and strength. When they’re neglected or harmed, they can quietly shape our lives for years—showing up as anxiety, fear, self-doubt, or difficulty trusting others.

How Childhood Shapes the Roots

Our childhood years are when we first learn what love feels like, what safety means, and whether we’re accepted for who we are. Moments of rejection, criticism, or emotional distance can plant beliefs such as “I’m not enough,” or “I have to earn love.” Even when we forget the memories, those beliefs remain in the roots—subtle, powerful, and often unconscious.

Signs of Wounded Roots

You might recognize these patterns:

  • Constantly seeking approval or fearing disapproval.

  • Struggling to set boundaries.

  • Feeling responsible for others’ emotions.

  • Having difficulty relaxing or trusting love.

These are not flaws; they are signals—like the spotted leaves on a tree—that something in the roots needs gentle care and light.

Healing Through Awareness and Compassion

At Inner Harmony, healing childhood wounds isn’t about reliving pain—it’s about transforming it. Through modalities like Heart-Centered HypnotherapyGestalt Therapy, and Reiki, we can safely reconnect with the younger self who learned to survive through protection and adaptation. When that part of you finally feels seen and supported, the belief of “I’m not safe” transforms into “I am loved and free to grow.”

Healing the roots of childhood pain allows your adult self to stand taller, breathe deeper, and flourish in authenticity.

Take Time for Reflection

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Take a quiet moment and ask:

What did my younger self need most that they didn’t receive

How can I offer that love and reassurance to myself today?

Closing Invitation

Every healed root brings new life to the tree. As you tend to your childhood wounds with compassion, the leaves of your life—your peace, confidence, and connection—begin to glow again.